By Posh13

We are all governed on the essence of passion, love and beauty. But we often forget the true significance of how to lure the opposite sex and how to keep them…satisfied that is. My number one method and I think it’s an international and common approach: Seduction.

There are a million ways to entice the mind and leave tantalizing effects on the human body, but seduction is something that doesn’t leave you and makes you come back every time for more.

How to begin this process is quite simple. Here are a few pointers:

1. Find your signature scent. Choose a smell that smells unique and most of all like YOU.
2. Broaden your horizons with Femininity.  Have a soothing, soft, throaty tone to your voice.  Learn how to dance, a seductive on of course.  Watch yourself in the mirror and dress up very sexy for your man.  Make him want every last drop.
3. Have your own mind and provide mental stimulation.  Make him want to get to know you by showing the depth of your character.  Bonus points if you develop a killer sense of humor.
4. Flirting never done anyone wrong-so show him that you are interested but keep him on his toes.
5. Men want to be taken away from their problems.  Do not BE the problem.  Be so thrilled with life that you radiate excitement and energy!  That’s the way to go!
6. When you are just about ready to take the next step, move a little slower then what he wants.  You will have him surrender in no time.  Kiss him passionately, then pull back. Seduction is all about delaying gratification.
7. Caress the body and try various massage techniques to stimulate blood flow and leave him enticed.
8. Enjoy sex! It does wonders for the human body.  Let yourself go.  Be in tune with your partner and your mind.

Do you have any seduction tips you want to share?  Leave a comment, sexy…

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By Catherine Behan

What?

That can’t happen, can it?

Some of us think, “That will never happen to me.” Many of us are right, especially with it comes to faithfulness. I, for one. can’t imagine myself ever creating an emotional connection to a man other than my husband. I love knowing him and slowly but surely, letting him know me. We are married just over three years and it still feels amazingly new.

It isn’t in me to be unfaithful, I am sure.

But.

I also never considered that my career, my passion yes, you could say it is my life work, would start to be more of my focus than my husband. Me. So busy in a creative hurricane of thought and activity that I hadn’t noticed the connection between us was wearing thin. I was having so much fun with my business and with the Tweeple and other online connections that I didn’t see what was happening.

He missed me and, bless him, my husband didn’t know how to approach me. He told me later that he didn’t want to hurt my feelings so he was holding back and not telling me what was going on with him.

Things were getting strained between us yet finally we were able to break through. We had words one night and both of us spoke our minds. Things were intense but we handled ourselves pretty gracefully all and all.

He left me with some things to think about. I love my work. I love helping women connect the dots and see hope in their relationships. I love social media, Twitter and Facebook, and the relationships I am finding across the world.

Plainly said, I love him more. I want to delegate more and let go of details I don’t need to be handling. You know why? Because I can’t delegate being a soul mate and I miss him. I want to spend more time with him. I want to be a soul mate.

I have reapportioned my time and my commitments. I am planning career goals with my husband and including him is bringing a new level of trust for me. I am working less and painting more. I am moving slower and spending more time outside.

My husband has been extra thoughtful as I have been gearing down. Plus I am thrilled to feel a new connection between us. It is that, more than a re-connection, it feels like a new connection. I just appreciate him more. I am moved by his commitment to be with me.

When I deliberately choose to think about those two things, my heart warms toward him. Abraham Hicks says “Think about what you DO like about a person and that is what you will see in the person.” It is nice to have time to think about my husband and have such warm feelings again.

So did I cheat?

What do you think?

About the Author:

Catherine Behan, M.S. is an Author, Relationship Expert, Seminar Leader, Inspirational Speaker and Internet Advice Columnist. For more information on The Soul Mate Process plus a free audio download check out http://SoulMateSavvy.com

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By Wendy Lapidus-Saltz

Okay, imagine you’re a love and attraction coach and one of your keenest specialties is helping people date and then zero in on an ideal mate. You have many tools, not the least of which is hypnosis.

Now who would you guess are your most fervent clients?

If you said it was hormone-driven 20-somethings, you’d be wrong. They do some in, get results and send me engagement announcements, but they are not the ones who keep my doors open and my brain working.

It’s the 35’s, 40’s, 50’s and up. Smart, assured, well-connected and self-directed.

They’ve loved and lost, and still crave the companionship and passion they’ve had snatched away from them, or tossed away themselves. They know what it’s like to be in a great relationship; either they’ve had one, or they’ve got the blueprint in their minds. But now, how to make it happen-without falling into the same traps of the past?

If you were me, helping them would be your mission. Would you accept it?

Sure! Because these just may be the coolest, most interesting people on Earth.

Why? You’re smart, experienced, discerning, and directed. That’s a good combo for dating.

I know that not every date-waiting boomer can visit me in my Chicago office (though many rave about our phone sessions!) so if you wish you could but you can’t, here are some tips to get you started in your own sphere. (If, on the other hand, can make it out to the Mag Mile, I would love to meet you.)

1. Approach dating only when you’re feeling pretty good about yourself.

You will absolutely project what you feel. So if you feel worthless and you go to a singles event, guess how you’ll come across? And if you think it would be terrible to project worthlessness and get no interest, attention, or dates, there is actually something worse: Projecting worthlessness and attracting people who want to date someone who feels worthless so they can take advantage of him or her. And it happens far too often.

Now you may be wondering: if I feel worthless a lot of the time, does this mean I can’t look for love? Good question. Here comes the answer…

2. Learn techniques to bolster your feeling of self worth and confidence.

Use them anytime you go where datable people might be. You’ll project good feelings and are likely to attract the same. Confidence is circular. You feel it,
people sense that, they respond well to you, and you feel more confident! And so it goes. Even being in the process of creating confidence makes you feel good.
Try these.

-Give yourself a new look.

Your way of dress and self presentation, your “look” has a shelf life just like eggs do. Is yours beyond the expiration date? Freshen up: hairstyle, clothing choices, shoes, and even coats and purses. Look like you know what’s happening today and you want to be part of it.

Also make changes that complement your current weight, hair color, and skin tone. They all change over time, and often for the better.

Once you have the look, get it to feel comfortable. Expert help, by the way, is useful and often complimentary. See which of your current wardrobe and accessories still work. You’ll be surprised at which ones get a new life by creating new combinations.

Give away or donate what doesn’t work. Generosity is life affirming.

-Stop comparing dating life to how it was in your 20’s.

It’s not just that you’re different. The world is different.

This has little to do with your looks, if that’s what you’re thinking. You are attractive enough. You can attract someone, that’s not at issue. It’s just not going to happen exactly the way it happened years ago.

Find out the new rules in general and the new rules for your age, religious, and social group. You may discover that some ideas that were off-putting before have changed to what better suits you. Hurrah! But don’t be too surprised.

It’s your age group that is currently running the world. Honest.

-Be a host to others.

No, it’s not true that you have to achieve everything you desire before you’re worthy of mentoring, assisting, or being a cheerleader to those on a similar quest. There are things you know that they don’t, and it’s okay to share.

Unless you hang around with the same people and at the same places all the time, you are not competition to each other. The field is wide, tastes vary, and, contrary to popular opinion, there is no shortage of people becoming single.

3. Get assistance.

-It’s really okay, so be okay with it.

It’s really, really okay to ask for advice and assistance. If you think of dating well, it can look like a great big puzzle. Consider that people you meet along the way have knowledge of different parts of that puzzle. Why not help each other with the areas in which you each have expertise.

- You know friends who know stuff.

The friends who know how to dress for dating success-get their help.

The friends who seems to understand how guys-or gals think- ask them to help translate what’s been puzzling you. Caution: there’s no guarantee they’ll be right, but another perspective, especially an educated one,is often useful.

The friends who know to go for a date, and what places to steer clear of, have them weigh in.

Ditto for current thinking on who pays, how soon is too soon, all useful areas to debate, especially if you haven’t been dating in a long time.

-Ultimately, it’s your life and your choice.

In the final analysis, who you see, where you go, what you do or don’t do, are your decision. And nobody’s opinion matters more than yours. You get to live with what you choose.

4. Remember: you’re not twenty-two. At the same time, be twenty-two.

What the hay does that mean? Simple: you’re not twenty-two: untested, unscarred, unhurried and often, well, unconscious. You know what you know and you need to respect the wisdom of it. But at the same time, you sometimes will need to cast off the disgruntled, cynical and overly protective parts of that (Notice I said “overly” skeptical).

And what does “be twenty-two” mean?

Recall and embrace the enthusiasm of that time in your life, the ability to go along for the ride, believe that great things are possible, and know that you deserve them.

5. Start playing.

Eventually you’ll need to put aside all the prepping, questioning and analyzing and get your feet wet again in the game. If you think of everything as an experiment and an experience, something to enjoy, learn from, and educate yourself with, you’ll do just fine.

So stop reading.

Get out there and play. The game board is yours. ©2008 by Wendy Lapidus-Saltz. All rights reserved.

Wendy Lapidus-Saltz is a hypnotist & mind coach specializing in love attraction and career issues. She maintains a Chicago office and works with clients worldwide by phone, offering a free phone consult. To help decide how hypnosis can help you, you can reach her at ILAPSAL@aol.com or 312-640-1584. For more info, do visit her websites: http://www.hypno-attraction.com and http://nonsmoker4life.com

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