By Chess McDoogle

All guys know that when it comes to intimacy with a female, the make it or break it question can be: How to turn a girl on? Even after you’ve met the right girl, say for the night, or for eternity, you still have to turn the heat up a major notch for there to be true passion, excitement, and unforgettable orgasms.

Here are 3 methods that can greatly have you going from a chill 60 degrees to a HOT 95 degrees in minutes, finally answering the question – how to turn a girl on!

1. The Prep Talk.

Now I know this may be difficult for guys to get into, but when you realize how much pure heat you can create you’ll realize how to turn a girl on effectively. The prep talk should consist of brief mentions regarding something about the girl, say, the clothes or jewelry she’s wearing, how nice her hair looks, or even how cute her shoes are (many girls are shoe freaks and love it when someone makes mention of the shoes they wear). But just one or two things very briefly. Don’t go overboard and make it obvious. When you comment on one thing it tends to stand out. When you comment on her from head to toe it gets too obvious and even creepy.This is the prep, and it’ll make it a lot easier for the heat to get turned up later.

2. Hot Pillow Talking.

Now this takes place during the beginning stages of intimacy. Not right away, but a few minutes in. This consists of brief whispers commenting for example on how pretty the girl is, but doing so in a more intimate and sensual manner, than the prep talk. Essentially it’s like taking the prep talk and pumping it with a mild steroid. Increasing the compliments slyly and slowly, again don’t over do it, just nice, soft, and easy. You’ll be amazed at how well this can work. They love to hear how pretty and beautiful you think they look. I know for a fact this is important as I’ve been flat out busted in the past when girls have actually told me, after the fact, how in the future it’d be real nice to hear these kind of things from me! So dudes, put the game face on, and let your emotional side come out in a complimentary, turned on manner!

3. Kiss her for christ’s sake!

Man, if there’s ever been a k.i.s.s. (keep it simple stupid) answer as to how to turn a girl on, then this would be it! Girls absolutely love kisses, and it’s amazing how dudes will land half a dozen smackers then immediately start working their way south! Work on learing how to take your time kissing a woman. And I’m talking kissing not tongue groping all over (not yet at least!). Basically small kisses, around the face and then other specific spots on the body are what can really start kicking the thermostat into high gear. Then you can make your way south for some heavy orgasmic kissing (cunnilingus!).

Now, these are no ultra secret techniques, these are basics that are not hard to implement. Think of this as the basic groundwork that you need to cover before going deeper. Each one of these needs to be done right, and it’s definitely worth researching further the exact prep talk phrases to use, the best pillow talk to employ, and the right wa to kiss her “all over”, with special focus on learning awesome orgasmic cunnilingus technique!

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Author: Joseph Matthews

The basics can really put you way ahead of other men when it comes to flirting. As I wrote previously, turn taking is of utmost importance. Now let’s look at the content of you are speaking!

There are rules that you’ll need to know. And as it were, most men don’t know them!  Knowing them is important, as you’ll avoid much a lot of pain that goes into failed flirting.

It’s not so much the content of what you are saying, but rather the delivery and it’s tone. For example if you drone on negatively about a certain subject, you are bound to eventually drive someone off.

It’s a simple mistake, and understandable. We live in a culture that celebrates cynicism to an extent, so people tend to embrace it. Overall, a little goes a long way though. Avoid that in your conversations, as you’ll bore her and she’ll get fed up with you.

Other ways to make a conversation boring are as follows:

Preoccupation with yourself. If you talk about yourself constantly, and show no interest in others (particularly her!), you are definitely going to have a short run.

Superficiality – talking only about the banal, telling hackneyed jokes or stories. This reeks of shallowness, just like the stories.

Being tedious – Talking too slowly, pausing too long, and taking too long to make a point. This is common, as people try to appear calm and smooth in their interactions. Remember, there is always a balance.

Too passive – just refusing to take part and leaving the conversation on the other person.

Unenthusiastic – talking in a monotone voice, showing no emotion, making no eye contact. This says a lot, and very little of it is good.

Being too serious or somber – There are times you NEED to be serious, but you need to be able to shake that off and clown around sometimes. If you don’t do it, your conversation might abruptly end.

Too much excitement – Someone who is all over the place during the conversation, or is easily sidetracked, you’ll make the other person go crazy. Reign this sort of behavior in at all costs.

So what IS a good thing to say? Aside from avoiding the above issues, there are a few things you can do. The first is to keep on the topic, and allow for turn taking. The second is to do your part in gauging the conversation, keep a positive attitude, and make it fun! Being fun is a huge part, and you can talk about almost anything!

Another thing to look at – compliments. They can be good, and are usually most welcome. However, you CAN go overboard. If you do, the situation is recoverable though.

If you do pay a compliment, be cautious of the nature of it. You can convey attraction without having to resort to vulgar or intrusive compliments. If you know the person, you can judge it better, but be aware of this issue.

Keeping it simple, and saying something such as “You look gorgeous”, can go a long way. Going further than this can cause offense or embarrassment. While that is not always the case, it’s a gambit that might not work out. Make sure to look her in the eyes while doing this – looking anywhere else could be potentially bad.

As well, while commenting on a woman’s appearance, remember that there is a time and place for everything. One of the biggest mistakes you can make is the timing your compliments poorly, as well as an other flirtatious overture.

Always be aware of the flirtatious overtures you are making. Sometimes it is obvious – you’d want to avoid saying something to someone who just lost a loved one, for example. But there are other times, when it’s not so obvious.

A good rule of thumb is to think about it in neutral terms. In other words, would you compliment a man in the situation? Would it seem appropriate? The same would apply if it was a woman. Keep it within those boundaries, and you’ll do fine.

While compliments are just a small part, they are important, and when used right will propel the attraction, instead of destroying it.

Pay attention to yourself during a conversation. Take notes too, if you can. Look for the rules mentioned above, and make sure to correct yourself after it happens. Eventually you’ll smooth things out.

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Article Source: The Art Of Verbal Flirting, Part 3

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