ExoticJess provides a video guide for those guys who seem to keep striking out with their smooth come on lines. “But I’m being post-modern” or “I meant it as a joke, obviously I know better,” probably won’t excuse you from trying. It’s better to know what girls consider slimy from a mile away before attempting your next pickup.
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Have you wondered once if there are ways to get a guy interested in you? In reality, there are many women wanting the same information that you do. Before anything else, the big key that makes men interested is not just about the looks. They look for qualities that will make you a potential candidate for a date.
One of the things that men look for in women is their confidence; guys often see women on how they carry themselves in a given situation. Guys who are seriously looking for a relationship will consider things that will feed his ego namely – beauty and brains. Now, you don’t need to undergo aesthetic procedures just to improve your beauty. All you need is to be attractive in your own way. Once you have accepted these big things, it is now time for you to learn the ways to get a guy interested in you.
Be interesting – a relationship will not survive if it is all about the relationship; discuss books, movies, ideas with him. Guys like to be stimulated beyond the bedroom. If he respects your intellect, he will respect the time you share together.
Be an all around nice person. Come to think of it no one guy can resist a woman who is nice fun to be with and generally kind. This does not mean you need to be a saint who is slow to anger and such but just by being naturally nice is a good way for you to get him interested.
Be an over-all friendly person. Don’t just be friendly to him or to his friends or to your friends only. Be friendly to almost anybody you meet. This doesn’t mean you act like a lunatic who smiles and greets everybody on the way but just by being friendly to people who comes to you for assistance perhaps.
Empathize with what he feels. If you are able to put yourself in his shoes then it would be easy for you to figure out certain boundaries between you two. If he is not interested, don’t force things to change and work for you, you are only risking your heart in the process.
Now that you know some ways to get a guy interested in you, it is up to you to just let it happen the natural way. Nothing can ever beat something that is natural. Try not to overwhelm him in the process.
In reality, there are actually more ways than one to get the guy interested in you in basically easy to follow steps that are guaranteed to work. Find out more about how women can take control in the field of dating and relationships and meet men that they want as well as in how to keep them in the long run by visitng the site listed below.
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Love is in the air (and hopefully air that’s not full of carbon emissions!) With climate change becoming more mainstream, “eco networking” is a great way to meet people – whether for business or for finding the man or woman of your dreams. Here are five great places and forums that you may not have considered.
1. Visit a Farmers Market
There is no better way to get to know community than heading to your local farmers’ market. Farmers and shoppers are always keen to share their thoughts and ideas on organic food, cooking and healthy living. Farmers markets serve a vital link between country and city living and is the perfect meeting ground for these disparate worlds.
2. Take a gardening or permaculture course
In these financially tough times, people are spending less time traveling and shopping and putting more effort into family and friends. It also means people are picking up new hobbies and pastimes, such as gardening and permaculture. Permaculture is a great way to get in touch with the environment and understand how to make your lifestyle more holistic and earth friendly. (And what better first impression can you make than with hands coated with rich fertile soil.)
3. Volunteer
Plant a tree, clean a park, raise awareness and meet great people. Community groups are full of enthusiastic, knowledgeable and kind hearted peopled just like yourself! You can volunteer at a number of levels, even if sitting in front of the computer is your thing. (Statistical fact – 90 percent of people who volunteer live longer and have better sex than those who don’t. Actually, we just made that up, but we dare someone to tell us it’s not true!)
4. Green dating goes online
Like everyone else, green dating moves online. Today’s mainstream dating sites, like RSVP have Green Communities and forums. There are also a number of great environmental meetup groups, such as GreenUps, which are specifically for greenies keen to network across the space.
5. Take public transport
Sharing in the public transport experience is a communal journey. Commuters meet and greet each other every morning and relish in the fact that they’re universally opting to go greener. (Or they get in a good whinge about how the bus is always late and traffic always slow, but either way, great conversational opener). Cyclers are also a very tight knit group, if you don’t mind a little bit of perspiration.
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It’s tough being an almost 30-something, single woman out there and I’m sure it’s tough being a friend/co-worker/relation to an almost 30-something, single woman. Just to help you out here are the top 10 things not to say to us.
So, what’s new? Anything new and exciting in your life? I know this is code for “Are you dating anyone?” Just don’t ask. If I meet someone I can guarantee you I’ll be talking about him because I’ll be so excited and because it doesn’t happen very often.
I recently went to a fun, charity dinner event for firefighters to raise money for a burn treatment centre. It’s such a great cause and of course that’s why I signed up… or for the possibility of meeting my future husband. And I know everyone else is thinking the same thing. So when the event is over and you ask me how it went and I say I had a great time and I’m definitely going again next year – this means that I had a great time and I’m definitely going again next year and no, I didn’t meet my future husband so don’t ask any more dumb questions.
Don’t mention kids. I’m lucky enough that I’m not really sure if I want kids so I’m not in a hurry to find a guy just for the sake of procreating. I had a co-worker of mine (who is a really great person) mention something to me about her sister, who has been dating a guy for over a year and that she had better get moving because she’s not getting any younger… her sister was 32. Hello??? I’m almost 30 – did you forget that? Don’t pass judgment on us prime, single women because we’re not having babies at 25. Then she proceeds to tell me she’s so happy she had kids when she was young so she can keep up with them and be a young mom. Helloo again??? Sometimes we don’t have a choice in the matter. I don’t want to be 40 if I decide to have kids but maybe that will be the age when I have the opportunity to have them.
You’ll find “the one” when you’re not looking. I’M ALWAYS LOOKING! I really hate that line.
Be happy with what you do have. This is true. I have my own place, a job, a car – I really am thankful. BUT I WANT MORE! There’s nothing like that feeling of being in love.
When you find the right person you’ll know. What do you mean I’ll know? Does a siren go off? Does someone come to me in a dream telling me that he’s the one? Do I get a letter in the mail saying I met my soul-mate? Throw me a bone people!
Stay busy and have a life of your own. I’m almost 30. I don’t go to the bar, I rarely go to pubs and I hang out with my married friends… yeah, I’m real busy.
If it’s meant to be it’ll happen. That’s a load of squash if I ever heard a load of squash. Some people don’t get married or meet their “soul-mate.” How come some people are lucky enough to find true love and some aren’t?
Put yourself out there. I have really done this. I consider myself a quieter person but I really do believe in taking chances and taking a risk especially because it makes my dull life more exciting. For example, I gave gym guy my number. Still waiting on that phone call. Part of the reason I did this is because I would love for someone to do that to me and I wanted to find out if he was interested. If not, I would know and then I could move on to my next poor, helpless victim.
You don’t need a man to complete you. Really? I betcha a single, feminist came up with this. There is a feeling you get from being with a man you’re attracted to that you just don’t get when you’re hanging with your girlfriends. It’s irreplaceable and I don’t want to go through life without it. I think it has to do with chemistry or hormones… really, it’s beyond our control and in our chemical make-up.
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Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to “nice” guys? Of course you have. Just like me, I’m sure you’ve had attractive female friends that always seemed to date “jerks”… but for some reason they were never romantically interested in you. What’s going on here? It’s actually very simple. Women don’t base their choice of men on how “nice” a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful gut level attraction to them. And guess what?
Being a nice guy won’t make a woman feel that powerful attraction to you. And being nice won’t make a woman choose you. I realize that this doesn’t make a lot of logical sense, and it’s hard to accept… but get over it. Until you accept this fact and begin to act on it, you’ll never have the success with women that you want.
#9 Trying to convince her to like you
What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they really like… but she’s just not interested? Right! They try to “convince” the woman to feel differently. Well, I have news for you: You will never change how a woman “feels” when it comes to attraction! Never, ever, ever.
You cannot convince a woman to feel differently about you by means of “logic and reasoning.” Think about it. If a woman doesn’t “feel it” for you, how in the world do you expect to change that feeling by being “reasonable” with her? But we all do it. When a woman just isn’t interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind. Bad idea. One that will never work.
#8 Looking for her approval
In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), we guys are always doing things to get a woman’s “approval” or “permission.” This is another horrible idea.
Women are never attracted to the type of men who kiss up to them… ever. Don’t get me wrong here. You don’t have to treat women badly for them to like you. But if you think that treating a woman well means “always getting her approval and permission for things,” think again. You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get annoyed at men who seek their approval. Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her.
You can’t buy your way to her heart…
#7 Trying to buy her affection
How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her reject you for someone who didn’t treat her even half as well as you did? If you’re like me, then you’ve had it happen a lot. Well guess what? It’s only natural when this happens. That’s right, I said natural. When you do these things, you’re sending a clear message: “I don’t think you’ll like me for who I am, so I’m going to try to buy your attention and affection.” Your good intentions usually come across to women as overcompensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That’s right, I said that women see this as manipulation.
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