We’ve all known or have been around guys that seem to just have “it,” and by it, I mean, they have a way with women that you WISHED that you had. Seems like they can go just about anywhere and women want to meet them and be near them and you want to know what their secrets really are. Well, you are about to discover some of what is behind their “natural” ability to attract women.
The fact is, most guys are not all that good at attracting women. Even some of those guys that seem to have that natural magnetic attraction with women, they put their time in and they learn what works to get female attention and make a woman feel attraction. Now, some guys learn this at a really early age, and these are the guys that end up being those naturals.
Here are 3 reasons why some guys seem to attract women easily and others have a hard time:
1. Men that know how to attract women, know how to give off their own unique charm
Charm is one of those things that you really do not acquire without getting out there and developing it. You have to be social to gain that charm that women fall for, though there are some guys that seem to have a “shy” charm about them. Still, when it comes time to interact with a woman, you need to be able to make her feel that charm, so that she starts to get those feelings of attraction for you.
2. They also know how to not care about the outcome
This is a biggie, here. Most men, they act like that woman that they meet is the only one that they are ever going to come across, so if she rejects them, they are DOOMED. Well, that’s a bit dramatic, don’t you think? Guys that realize that there are a LOT of beautiful and single women out there, they usually don’t care too much if they get the girl or not, and that very attitude…helps them to get the GIRL!
3. They also will approach many women, to find the high quality ones
Look, finding a high quality woman, a woman that is attractive, fun to be around, AND is not looking for a guy to support her is not that hard as long as you approach many women. You cannot expect to land the perfect job on the first try, so why would you think that you could attract the perfect woman on the first try? You need to get out there and make the approach, so that you get used to being around many different women and you NEVER feel like the right one is that hard to find.
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All guys know that when it comes to intimacy with a female, the make it or break it question can be: How to turn a girl on? Even after you’ve met the right girl, say for the night, or for eternity, you still have to turn the heat up a major notch for there to be true passion, excitement, and unforgettable orgasms.
Here are 3 methods that can greatly have you going from a chill 60 degrees to a HOT 95 degrees in minutes, finally answering the question – how to turn a girl on!
1. The Prep Talk.
Now I know this may be difficult for guys to get into, but when you realize how much pure heat you can create you’ll realize how to turn a girl on effectively. The prep talk should consist of brief mentions regarding something about the girl, say, the clothes or jewelry she’s wearing, how nice her hair looks, or even how cute her shoes are (many girls are shoe freaks and love it when someone makes mention of the shoes they wear). But just one or two things very briefly. Don’t go overboard and make it obvious. When you comment on one thing it tends to stand out. When you comment on her from head to toe it gets too obvious and even creepy.This is the prep, and it’ll make it a lot easier for the heat to get turned up later.
2. Hot Pillow Talking.
Now this takes place during the beginning stages of intimacy. Not right away, but a few minutes in. This consists of brief whispers commenting for example on how pretty the girl is, but doing so in a more intimate and sensual manner, than the prep talk. Essentially it’s like taking the prep talk and pumping it with a mild steroid. Increasing the compliments slyly and slowly, again don’t over do it, just nice, soft, and easy. You’ll be amazed at how well this can work. They love to hear how pretty and beautiful you think they look. I know for a fact this is important as I’ve been flat out busted in the past when girls have actually told me, after the fact, how in the future it’d be real nice to hear these kind of things from me! So dudes, put the game face on, and let your emotional side come out in a complimentary, turned on manner!
3. Kiss her for christ’s sake!
Man, if there’s ever been a k.i.s.s. (keep it simple stupid) answer as to how to turn a girl on, then this would be it! Girls absolutely love kisses, and it’s amazing how dudes will land half a dozen smackers then immediately start working their way south! Work on learing how to take your time kissing a woman. And I’m talking kissing not tongue groping all over (not yet at least!). Basically small kisses, around the face and then other specific spots on the body are what can really start kicking the thermostat into high gear. Then you can make your way south for some heavy orgasmic kissing (cunnilingus!).
Now, these are no ultra secret techniques, these are basics that are not hard to implement. Think of this as the basic groundwork that you need to cover before going deeper. Each one of these needs to be done right, and it’s definitely worth researching further the exact prep talk phrases to use, the best pillow talk to employ, and the right wa to kiss her “all over”, with special focus on learning awesome orgasmic cunnilingus technique!
People enjoy having sex. It’s happening by the moment all around the world.
We as humans long for touch caress and embrace from one another. Tantric sexuality represents one of the oldest examples of a philosophy of spiritual sexuality that continues to be practiced today. It is over 1500 years old and originates from India. It is practiced across the globe and is internationally recognized and applied in many countries.
Your experience with Tantric Sex, will allow you to enrich your sexuality and enhance and develop your breath and depth within you. The objective of Tantric Sex is to FEEL. It is not about the orgasm.
One way to begin on this remarkable journey is to start off with a couples massage. This technique will help elevate your levels of arousal and increase intimacy between the two of you. The essence of any kind of touch practice is quality and communication is vital. Start off with your partner laying flat on the stomach and begin to use your hands –no oils or creams. Place them symmetrically apart on the base of the spine and the other on the base of the neck. Apply light pressure to the areas to stimulate blood flow and open your chakras and levels of energy. Continue to have your partner breath in and out and to focus and clear the mind. This is a wonderful beginner’s technique and a great to allow Tantra into your love life!
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Dating can be a complicated process, and to be honest, not very many people are good at it. The next time you have a big date planned, try to avoid these dangerous dating mistakes.
1. The Act
Most people are afraid of rejection. It’s human nature, and because of this, many people act as though they are somebody they really aren’t. It’s far better to be yourself. If you are looking for a successful, long-term relationship, it’s better to let someone learn about the real you. By doing so, you can avoid some potentially messy misunderstandings in the future. You won’t be able to keep up the act forever, and once you let your guard down, the other person may find out that you’re not the right one for them.
2. The Ex
Don’t talk about your ex boyfriend or girlfriend a lot. They don’t want to hear it at this point, and they definitely don’t want to feel like they are being compared to your past partners.
3. Settling
Sure, they have great teeth, hair and a grand sense of humor, but you realize that he/she is picky and argumentative. He/She is still a whole lot better than a lot of your past partners though, right? Wrong. When you settle for something less than you were originally looking for, you set yourself up for future failure. There are plenty of single men and women out there, don’t settle for second best.
4. The Illusion
When you’re first attracted to someone, your body is pumped full of a wonderful chemical called oxytocin. Oxytocin can fool you into thinking everything is perfect, and make you want to throw yourself at the other person. However, you need to be rational, and slow the pace down a bit. Give your body time to adjust, and see things from a more logical point of view.
5. Make Wedding Plans
Don’t talk about marrying them. It makes you look dependant, and while this may make you vulnerable, it’s not what a woman or man is looking for in a long term relationship. They may sleep with you, because you seem vulnerable, but it’s unlikely that you’ll receive a second invitation to a date.
6. Sleep With Them On The First Date
If you sleep with someone after the first or second date, the other person is bound to wonder how many other men or women you’ve done this with in the past. If you’re looking for a long-term commitment, that’s not the impression you want to leave.
7. Not Being Confident
If the relationship isn’t meant to happen, it won’t. Being anxious and nervous about what the other person is going to say about you later, is a definite mood killer. However, confidence in yourself can really boost your worth in a potential mates eye. This doesn’t mean you should act like an egotistical jerk. Just be comfortable with yourself, and the rest will take care of itself.
8. Date Atmosphere
The whole point of dating is to get to know someone better. This can’t be done if you go to a movie theatre on your first date. While the movie is running, you’re both absorbed, making meaningful conversation impossible. Plan your first date wisely, instead of wasting your time.
9. Clam Up
Let them in a little. Not talking, or answering questions on a date, can quickly lead to failure. While you shouldn’t talk too much about yourself, it’s okay to let them get to know you a little.
One top mistake many people make is to just answer the question being asked, and usually answer it in a really short manner. I have been on the receiving end of this and it makes it so hard for the person asking the questions! You need to have a bit of give and take, conversation should flow and should go both ways, answer questions, bring in your experiences and other related stories to the answer, and make sure to bounce back the question or conversation to the other person. Do that and the conversation and attraction will flow freely.
10. Don’t Lie
Keep your word. If you are unreliable, you’re showing your date that you’re going to be unreliable in the future. Most people want a reliable, trustworthy and honest partner.
If you can avoid these deadly dating mistakes in the future, you’re ahead of the game. Just be natural, and not fake. Enjoy the dating scene, but be aware that there are a lot of players on the field. It’s only a matter of time, until you meet the right one for you.
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Dating can be a complicated process, and to be honest, not very many people are good at it. The next time you have a big date planned, try to avoid these dangerous dating mistakes.
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