By Alexandra Reinis

People enjoy having sex. It’s happening by the moment all around the world.

We as humans long for touch caress and embrace from one another. Tantric sexuality represents one of the oldest examples of a philosophy of spiritual sexuality that continues to be practiced today. It is over 1500 years old and originates from India. It is practiced across the globe and is internationally recognized and applied in many countries.

Your experience with Tantric Sex, will allow you to enrich your sexuality and enhance and develop your breath and depth within you. The objective of Tantric Sex is to FEEL. It is not about the orgasm.

One way to begin on this remarkable journey is to start off with a couples massage. This technique will help elevate your levels of arousal and increase intimacy between the two of you. The essence of any kind of touch practice is quality and communication is vital. Start off with your partner laying flat on the stomach and begin to use your hands –no oils or creams. Place them symmetrically apart on the base of the spine and the other on the base of the neck. Apply light pressure to the areas to stimulate blood flow and open your chakras and levels of energy. Continue to have your partner breath in and out and to focus and clear the mind. This is a wonderful beginner’s technique and a great to allow Tantra into your love life!

photo courtesy The Essex’s Vermont’s Culinary Resort and Spa

By: Gillian Reynolds

Are you and your boyfriend compatible?

That’s a loaded question, isn’t it? Compatibility is obviously incredibly important for any long term relationship to flourish and grow but how are you supposed to know just how well you two are suited for each other when things are still very fresh and new. We all have typical questions that we ask when we find ourselves developing feelings for someone, but are they the right questions? You may not realize that there are actually very specific questions you can ask a prospective partner that will let you know whether he’s the one for you or not.

One way to answer the question are you and your boyfriend compatible is to ask him a series of innocent sounding questions and then compare his answers to how you’d respond if asked. Some great examples are questions about where he sees himself in five years and whether or not he’s planning on having children. Many women neglect to ask any questions about how their man views the male and female dynamic. For instance, if you have very rigid ideas about how women should be just as entitled to work after the couple has children, and your boyfriend completely disagrees with that and thinks that women need to stay home and raise their kids, that’s a problem. Questions like these are simple to fit into a conversation and can be incredibly telling.

Some people get caught up in asking questions about their partner’s favorite movie or color. Naturally these will give you some insight into his likes and dislikes, but it’s not going to reveal a lot about his core values or beliefs. Try asking things about his childhood and what one great memory is. This can tell you a lot about the dynamic of the relationship he shared with the people closest to him, including his parents. Also, ask about his parents and their relationship. Many people repeat the same behavior in their own primary relationship that they witnessed in their parent’s marriage when they were growing up. The answer to that can give you a glimpse into what a future with your boyfriend might be like.

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Compatibility is essential for the long term success of any dating relationship. There are very specific and revealing questions you should be asking your boyfriend to see if he’s the man for you.

Learn the questions you need to start asking now to see if you two really do have a future together.

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By Posh13

We are all governed on the essence of passion, love and beauty. But we often forget the true significance of how to lure the opposite sex and how to keep them…satisfied that is. My number one method and I think it’s an international and common approach: Seduction.

There are a million ways to entice the mind and leave tantalizing effects on the human body, but seduction is something that doesn’t leave you and makes you come back every time for more.

How to begin this process is quite simple. Here are a few pointers:

1. Find your signature scent. Choose a smell that smells unique and most of all like YOU.
2. Broaden your horizons with Femininity.  Have a soothing, soft, throaty tone to your voice.  Learn how to dance, a seductive on of course.  Watch yourself in the mirror and dress up very sexy for your man.  Make him want every last drop.
3. Have your own mind and provide mental stimulation.  Make him want to get to know you by showing the depth of your character.  Bonus points if you develop a killer sense of humor.
4. Flirting never done anyone wrong-so show him that you are interested but keep him on his toes.
5. Men want to be taken away from their problems.  Do not BE the problem.  Be so thrilled with life that you radiate excitement and energy!  That’s the way to go!
6. When you are just about ready to take the next step, move a little slower then what he wants.  You will have him surrender in no time.  Kiss him passionately, then pull back. Seduction is all about delaying gratification.
7. Caress the body and try various massage techniques to stimulate blood flow and leave him enticed.
8. Enjoy sex! It does wonders for the human body.  Let yourself go.  Be in tune with your partner and your mind.

Do you have any seduction tips you want to share?  Leave a comment, sexy…

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It’s not easy swimming around the dating pool, especially, these days.

I’ve known people who have stayed years in a relationship with someone before figuring out they are sociopathic, psychos with a PAST.  It’s enough to make any once-extroverted socialite stay indoors and never go out to fish again.  With technology ever-evolving and the introduction of iPhones, the dating scene may have just gotten a bit safer.  Intelius, “a Background-check powerhouse” just announced it’s new entry into the 2-billion-apps-downloaded-daily iPhone market  with “DATECHECK.”  It is an application that allows the iPhones to be used to expose info people (ie. Your Date) may be hiding.

Once the application is installed the user supplies names and a telephone number to uncover criminal pasts, and current spouses even.  A SLEAZE DETECTOR feature in DateCheck searches, finds, and lists records of crimes, including drug arrests, sexual assaults, drunk driving, etc.  There is even a feature that shows current living situations, to see if your date has a roomate, and who it is.   Of course it will have the common features of a compatibility application such as astrological signs, and will even search online for their Facebook, MySpace, flickr, and LinkedIn pages to gather information as well.

So if your date passes the “SLEAZE DETECTOR,” the next step, OF COURSE, is to find out how much he/she is worth right?  Well, you will be able to with “NETWORTH.”   That’s right even as the gorgeous specimen of humanity sitting across from you is mentally tabulating the right tip, you can discretely find out, via your iPhone whether they can even afford it.

DateCheck for iPhones will be available in a few days online at Apple’s online APP store.  In a few weeks, we will see this app for other smart phones, and then a version for you Blackberry users toward the end of the month.

You should tell us what you think here.